The Process To Process – Shareable Nugget #11
Shareable Nugget #11: The Process To Process
Have you ever been digging for your gold for a really long time and maybe you’ve dug up a whole bunch of gold over the years, but It’s been really hard to translate that gold into your bank account?
Yeah, I know I feel the exact same way. I’ve been digging for gold the last 12 years, but what I didn’t realize, I was stuck into some patterns. I was stuck in some habits that were holding me back, that were keeping me from my full potential.
In fact, that’s one of the things that I realized.
I discovered some fears. What are you afraid of? I was, I thought it was afraid of my, my full potential and that is what it was. I realized I was afraid of fulfilling my full potential. Are you kidding me?
That shouldn’t be my fear. I should live in that. I should go towards that every single day, but I wasn’t.
I was stuck.
I was in a rut and I needed to get out of that rut and I had to process everything that I’ve learned over the last 39 years of my life.
I never took a moment to process. There is a process to processing. You have to force it. Nobody will let you process. You got to choose to process. Nobody’s really stopping you from processing.
Nobody’s trying to stop you from processing and nobody even knows they’re stopping you from processing, but they are because everybody has their own things they need from you.
You need to take some time for yourself.
You need to choose not to call alone time, loneliness – instead call it structured alone time.
You need to design your cocoon.
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It’s not enough to just turn the switch off and that’s what I didn’t really understand at the time. I didn’t understand that full part of it. And, the other thing is when you choose to uninstall what you don’t like.
When you ask yourself, do I need to become aware of all these hidden blind spots and hidden weaknesses and fears that I don’t even know that I have.
The problem is the more you ask that question, the more they become revealed and when they become revealed it feels like a bandaid ripping off.
And that is okay though. It’s good.
So here’s the big question then. How do we change that programming?
How do we change the paradigm that has been pre-installed before you can even remember?
Some of these bad habits, these anger habits… Okay, so here’s another quick story.
When I was a kid, I had some anger issues and I had some anger issues because I was around some people who were angry as adults and those habits kind of just got installed in me.
But you don’t expect anger. Anger happens quick. It happens in a moment. It’s a powerful emotion.
But when I got that program installed a child, I went to anger management because it was ruining some relationships when I was a kid. I would pop off at the wrong time, in the middle of a parking lot, about something stupid. So my mom made me go to anger management.
When I was a kid, all of the experiences that I had. Yeah, they were crazy.
They were totally crazy, but they were good crazy.
I mean, do we want everything to be perfect?
Yeah. I know. I want to create, when I have kids, I want to create a great experience and environment for them, but am I going to like lock them away in a little room and not let them risk anything? Is that what we’re supposed to do? Well, here’s an interesting statistic.
More than 85% of the daily actions that we take as an adult, the habitual actions that make up our paradigm, were installed prior to us being five years old.
David A Stone
Founder of Develop Awesome Skills
I'm an Authorpreneur, Goal-Mining Expert, Urban Farmer &
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So, I guess you can call me a 'treasure hunter.' The treasure I seek is gold.
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I have become so obsessed with defining what drives us all to do the things we do. Why do we act like we are in poverty when wealth is a mindset we can switch on in a moment?
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