Un-Install Anger – Shareable Nugget #19

by Jul 10, 2019Blog, Shareable Nuggets

Shareable Nugget #19: Un-Install Anger

So here’s the big question then. How do we change that programming?

How do we change the paradigm that has been pre-installed before you can even remember?

Some of these bad habits, these anger habits… Okay, so here’s another quick story.

When I was a kid, I had some anger issues and I had some anger issues because I was around some people who were angry as adults and those habits kind of just got installed in me.

You don’t expect anger.

Anger happens quick. It happens in a moment. It’s a powerful emotion.

But when I got that program installed a child, I went to anger management because it was ruining some relationships when I was a kid. I would pop off at the wrong time, in the middle of a parking lot, about something stupid. So my mom made me go to anger management.

So I went to anger management a couple times and I met all these men who were in their 50s and 40’sand they were so bitter and they were so angry and they were just like, I have to leave my family and drive up to the middle of the mountains by myself on my motorcycle just to get any solitude. 

I’m like, okay, I don’t want to become that. So at the time I chose to flip the switch of anger off.

What I didn’t understand is that by flipping the switch off later on in my life, that switch could get flipped back on.  

And it did during my depression of 2017. That switch got flipped back on. I didn’t even know I still had it. I didn’t realize it was off. I flipped that switch off for a good 20 years.

But 20 years later during my depression, during the deepest part of my adult experience, it got flipped back on and what I realized, the solution was that I needed to un-install it and re-install what I wanted in its place.


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